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Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:27 PM
...notified me last night that our relationship is having problems because we're not spending enough time together. I'm trying to hold down two jobs while taking a full course load so I'm rather pressed for time as it is. I didn't have the heart (or balls) to tell her that I was planning on moving her out of my life for a week and implanting SH3 in her place when it is released next week http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-surprised.gif

Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em.

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:27 PM
...notified me last night that our relationship is having problems because we're not spending enough time together. I'm trying to hold down two jobs while taking a full course load so I'm rather pressed for time as it is. I didn't have the heart (or balls) to tell her that I was planning on moving her out of my life for a week and implanting SH3 in her place when it is released next week http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-surprised.gif

Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em.

Dominicrigg
03-09-2005, 05:28 PM
Lifes a ***** then you marry one!

Willey
03-09-2005, 05:30 PM
You've got a really bad situation there http://www.ubisoft.de/smileys/wchand.gif

Let's face it: It or her http://www.ubisoft.de/smileys/dancing_geek.gif

Take your choice wisely http://www.ubisoft.de/smileys/13.gif

JG27_Arklight
03-09-2005, 05:31 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:
...notified me last night that our relationship is having problems because we're not spending enough time together. I'm trying to hold down two jobs while taking a full course load so I'm rather pressed for time as it is. I didn't have the heart (or balls) to tell her that I was planning on moving her out of my life for a week and implanting SH3 in her place when it is released next week http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-surprised.gif

Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

2 jobs and full time school. Same here.

I also noticed you are taking Constitutionial law as well. Same here.

I think we are somehow cosmically related. lol

Women are funny. They want you to have this great job and support them but if you are in school and working at the same time....then you aren't spending enough time with them. However, if the situation is reversed, you BETTER understand!

I think they are all insane.

KiwiVenge
03-09-2005, 05:32 PM
When I was young and indestructable I always figured instead of getting married, I would just find a woman I hate and buy her a house. Then send her a thousand dollar a month.
Would end up where everyone else is, without the years of torture.
http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/34.gif

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:39 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by KiwiVenge:
When I was young and indestructable I always figured instead of getting married, I would just find a woman I hate and buy her a house. Then send her a thousand dollar a month.
Would end up where everyone else is, without the years of torture.
http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/34.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

lol...you're scaring me here, man!

Jose.MaC
03-09-2005, 05:43 PM
Come on! That's just a game! Don't overworry about it! Your girl friend is real life, so real life is always more important than virtual life.

This game wanna be fun. But life is more important than a game. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Good luck!

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:44 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by JG27_Arklight:
2 jobs and full time school. Same here.

I also noticed you are taking Constitutionial law as well. Same here.

I think we are somehow cosmically related. lol

Women are funny. They want you to have this great job and support them but if you are in school and working at the same time....then you aren't spending enough time with them. However, if the situation is reversed, you BETTER understand!

I think they are all insane. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I agree. She wants a ring and it has to be a nice ring. So I start working two jobs so I can afford that and law school. But somehow that makes me a bad boyfriend. I don't even go get drunk w/ the guys anymore (I know, cardinal sin). She can at least let me have my Silent Hunter 3 fix http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/icon_twisted.gif

KiwiVenge
03-09-2005, 05:45 PM
Well, it was truly how I felt at the time lol
3 older brothers, all divorced ...
But, I did not take my own advice. I got married, moved halfway around the world. Then we decided to have a child. Ended up me being the one to quit my job. Now I am a stay at home Dad.
And loving it!
But ya, be afraid, be very afraid ....
*cackles with insane glee*

Capt.LoneRanger
03-09-2005, 05:46 PM
Well, my friends gave me that name for a reason. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

But I got to admit, the "lone" doesn't fit anymore. Fortunately she accepts, even supports my hobbies. http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/11.gif

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:50 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by KiwiVenge:
Well, it was truly how I felt at the time lol
3 older brothers, all divorced ...
But, I did not take my own advice. I got married, moved halfway around the world. Then we decided to have a child. Ended up me being the one to quit my job. Now I am a stay at home Dad.
And loving it!

But ya, be afraid, be very afraid ....
*cackles with insane glee* <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

That wouldn't be all that bad. She could pay the bills and I could stay at home teaching the kid the glories of SH3. After all, my dad raised me on Silent Service...it's a family tradition!

Unfortunately I'm spending $200,000 on an education, so I should probably make some money first...but that'd be one hell of a retirement!

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 05:51 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Capt.LoneRanger:
Well, my friends gave me that name for a reason. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

But I got to admit, the "lone" doesn't fit anymore. Fortunately she accepts, even supports my hobbies. http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/11.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

My girlfriend thinks computer games are stupid and pointless. It'll be a cold day in hell before she'll join in on the fun.

KiwiVenge
03-09-2005, 05:54 PM
I like how things worked out.
No matter how many times you hear it, kids are great! You just gotta be ready for them, in terms of what stage of your life you are in.

HeibgesU999
03-09-2005, 06:03 PM
As an old friend once told me, "Get married to quick, lose half your sh@t!

finchOU
03-09-2005, 06:10 PM
I dont know man, women make statements sometimes that are unwarrented....hell she knows your schedule....she knew what she would be getting into right?? Is it a true statement? Is she just making up a BS excuse to have an easy out of the relationship without saying that she wants out? If you bend over backwards for her to make what little time you have for hre and she makes a statement like that she is either BSing you and wants out, or too High Maintaince for anyones liking...either way....there are always more fish in the sea...
do I have a girlfriend?? No, cause I know whats good for me in this stage of my life (very busy..achieving my dream....distractions in my line of work are known to get the best of people)...sure I'm lonely most of the time, but I know it would not be worth it! Love can wait! (I know I know ...true romactic!)

Drym
03-09-2005, 06:12 PM
My last 5 g/f didn't understand my hobbies. Seems they didn't love me, they loved their idealized vision of me; and of course tried to change me *sigh*

A good woman is hard to find

KiwiVenge
03-09-2005, 06:18 PM
Never forget lads, women look at us as if we are all 'fixer uppers'
You just have to let them think they are fixin ya, while keeping what is you intact and keeping the peace.
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Yog_Shoggoth
03-09-2005, 06:29 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Jose.MaC:
Come on! That's just a game! Don't overworry about it! Your girl friend is real life, so real life is always more important than virtual life.

life is more important than a game. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

<HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
That'sa dirty filthy lie and you know it!!
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stevenwhiting
03-09-2005, 06:38 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by JG27_Arklight:
2 jobs and full time school. Same here.

I also noticed you are taking Constitutionial law as well. Same here.

I think we are somehow cosmically related. lol

Women are funny. They want you to have this great job and support them but if you are in school and working at the same time....then you aren't spending enough time with them. However, if the situation is reversed, you BETTER understand!

I think they are all insane. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I agree. She wants a ring and it has to be a nice ring. So I start working two jobs so I can afford that and law school. But somehow that makes me a bad boyfriend. I don't even go get drunk w/ the guys anymore (I know, cardinal sin). She can at least let me have my Silent Hunter 3 fix http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/icon_twisted.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

No offence but sounds like she's a selfish cow. Plus knowing your be a lawyer, maybe after your money. Shouldn't matter if the ring is from a can or a big hugh diamond rock its the thought that counts not how much it cost.

Axxent
03-09-2005, 06:42 PM
If she loves you, she'll understand what you're going through and stick with you. If she is threatening to leave you over your busy schedule, then she's not worth the time of day.

BoneDaddy1844
03-09-2005, 06:46 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:
...notified me last night that our relationship is having problems because we're not spending enough time together. I'm trying to hold down two jobs while taking a full course load so I'm rather pressed for time as it is. I didn't have the heart (or balls) to tell her that I was planning on moving her out of my life for a week and implanting SH3 in her place when it is released next week http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-surprised.gif

Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Only a week?

Better dig in for a longer haul than that, friend!

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archer49d
03-09-2005, 06:50 PM
Two possibilities...

1) You never get married...
-You keep your money
-You keep your hair
-You can afford a lot more things (Yacht)
-You can vacation in SE Asia (on your Yacht)
-You live longer
-Life is good

2) You get married
-You get married
-Then you spend 40+ years dying

urfisch
03-09-2005, 07:05 PM
woman are strange creatures...ther´re you all right here...

BUT

they all got nice wet ***** and juggy boobs, round asses and last but not least nice long legs. and as a bonus for beeing with them, you´re allowed to touch them sometimes! if your´re a lucky one http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

but they not often have a warm heart, which is hugging you warm and softly. so be wise in your decision. this kind of woman is rare and hard to find...

just a little notice to be noticed http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif
but i guess you all knew this!


my girlfriend tries to understand why im so fascinated of the german uboatwarfare (and the pc-game)...but has her problems to deal with it. i was really surprised, as i recognized that she´s really interested in this topic and so i ordered to watch in the next week THE movie "the boat"! awesome, i thought!

and in spring we will travel to kiel, germany and visit the uboat U-995!

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 07:09 PM
my girlfriend tries to understand why im so fascinated of the german uboatwarfare (and the pc-game)...but has her problems to deal with it. i was really surprised, as i recognized that she´s really interested in this topic and so i ordered to watch in the next week THE movie "the boat"! awesome, i thought!

and in spring we will travel to kiel, germany and visit the uboat U-995![/QUOTE]

Quit it. You're killing me. Why can't my girl be interested in things like that?

Don't get me wrong, she's pretty awesome. But I think one of the requirements to joining an American sorority (do those exist in Europe?) is that you have to shun virtual games. Ach! It's a shame. I told her about SH3 and she just shook her head at me http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/51.gif

Poacher886a
03-09-2005, 07:13 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Jose.MaC:
Come on! That's just a game! Don't overworry about it! Your girl friend is real life, so real life is always more important than virtual life.

This game wanna be fun. But life is more important than a game. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Good luck! <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I have to disagree,Virtual life is much more fun than real life,which is why i spend so much time in it,
Real life is hard work and boaring unless you have serious money and no need to work,women our boaring,personaly i'd dump the bird and get playing SH3 for a year!!

urfisch
03-09-2005, 07:17 PM
i know what you mean nukem...that she is getting interested in gaming is the result of a year hard work...

first game she played and got interested in was "vietcong"..i thought my ears where kidding me, as i heard from behind, i was crawling thrugh the jungle, "may i have few shots"? "i want to try this..." but it was meant for real!!!since then she understands much better, why im such a gaming freak.

maybe you should give her a few traininglessons?!
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Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 07:22 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by urfisch:

maybe you should give her a few traininglessons?!
http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-wink.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Tried. She plays spider solitaire and nothing more. I tried her out on both Half-life and R:TW and each time the answer was the same. "I'm tired, so if you want to get laid tonight quit playing your stupid game and come to bed." Making me choose between the two necessities in my life...yeesh. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

urfisch
03-09-2005, 07:34 PM
understand... http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_frown.gif

seems as if tough things coming your way after the 18th...but i think you know that in general, a nice awesome girl is much more worth than a few sunk ships on the screen...

if i was her (my girlfriend) i also would be tired of my friend, if he preferes to play hl2 instead of give me a hot shot http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif
but i managed to get through hl2 without losing her...you will also manage i hope to have lots of nice torphits and also a warm body in your bed waiting for you kindly http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif have to go to bed now. time here is 03.35 in the morning. bit to late. have to get up in a few hours.

have a nice evening (with your lovely one)!

Pr0metheus 1962
03-09-2005, 07:39 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:
I agree. She wants a ring and it has to be a nice ring. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Boy, you are whipped. I bought my wife a $10 engagement ring, and she was completely happy with it. 15 years later we're still married. If you're not best friends with your G/F, then marrying her probably isn't a good plan.

Advice from a happily married man, worth what you pay for it.

Schepke_U-100
03-09-2005, 08:21 PM
My women issues are weird at the moment! I slept with the work secretary who had a boyfriend. She cheated on him with me for about 9 to 10 months. She has only now just broken up with him but says she thinks its too soon to have another boyfriend, but we are still gonna be together? What is that!!! Weird...
She gets jealous if im out with the lads, but sometimes if I wanna see her then she says she is too busy... I guess I gotta give her time to get over the break up...She only did it 3 weeks ago... Not that I care about the other guy, he caught me with her and stabbed me in the back of the head with his car keys... Alot of blood lets just say... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/blink.gif

Oh and I lost that job, I got sacked coz the bosses didnt take kindly to me shagging the secretary. Since then I have got a another job at a better architects firm... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-happy.gif

YES! WOMEN ARE WEIRD. one minute you think you have em sorted out then they do something to completely S-C-R-E-W your mind over...

Axxent
03-09-2005, 08:32 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Beeryus:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:
I agree. She wants a ring and it has to be a nice ring. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Boy, you are whipped. I bought my wife a $10 engagement ring, and she was completely happy with it. 15 years later we're still married. If you're not best friends with your G/F, then marrying her probably isn't a good plan.

Advice from a happily married man, worth what you pay for it. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Precisely! If the woman loves you, it won't make a difference if the ring is worth ten dollars or ten thousand dollars. Like I said before, if this girl loves you, and I mean really loves you, she'll put her ambitions on hold and realize that you have your own priorities.

Perhaps playing SHIII isn't as important as work or school, but it is important. It's what you do to relax, to unwind, or maybe just to kick-back and have a good time. Your girl should be able to realize this and accept it.

If it's not working like that for you, I'm afraid you're with the wrong person.

Mjollnir111675
03-09-2005, 08:39 PM
Well livin life by "The Big Lebowski" doesn't exactly help either! http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-wink.gif
Although that ,the Blues Brothers,Anoimal House ,!941 amongst others is life as I know it That and Weird Science!!

CHET ROX!!

TooFastForLove.
03-09-2005, 08:52 PM
At only 19 years old I'm starting to think that women for the most part are inherently evil. Doesn't matter how nice or sweet them seem on the outside. To think that most of my experience with girls so far has been more positive than negitive. Then there are all the horror stories about how so many guys have these *****es screw them over. I've half taken on the motto "Don't trust a ***** unless she has 4 legs and a tail." The 2 legged ones just want money, or god knows what else.

Forbidden1
03-09-2005, 09:13 PM
My wife loves yahoo games, so she's on her computer and I'm on mine. Yaaaahhhoooooo!!!!! http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/88.gif http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/88.gif http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/88.gif

Nukem_Hicks
03-09-2005, 09:20 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by TooFastForLove.:
At only 19 years old I'm starting to think that women for the most part are inherently evil. Doesn't matter how nice or sweet them seem on the outside. To think that most of my experience with girls so far has been more positive than negitive. Then there are all the horror stories about how so many guys have these *****es screw them over. I've half taken on the motto "Don't trust a ***** unless she has 4 legs and a tail." The 2 legged ones just want money, or god knows what else. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Thus the nickname, I'm assuming? Don't worry, not all women are evil. Most are, but there's a few good ones out there. It took four failed relationships to discover that, but it happens...eventually.

Just make sure she likes computer games! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_razz.gif

julien673
03-09-2005, 09:38 PM
If only the women can read that lol..

TheFastFreddie
03-09-2005, 09:41 PM
Does she go to school and have two jobs or any jobs at all? She sounds pretty selfish because your already under enough pressure without hearing *****ing about spending every moment you have to relax doing what she wants. If shes not understanding enough to realize that you are busting your *** to get things done ... show her the door. There are always more tail to chase later on. Do what you want in the meantime. If you are 40 years old and still unmarried then maybe look into your habits but until then ... sink those British bastards.

blue_76
03-09-2005, 09:58 PM
if she's any selfrespecting woman.. she'll respect you if you respect her http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

hauitsme
03-09-2005, 10:12 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>TooFastForLove.:
At only 19 years old I'm starting to think that women for the most part are inherently evil. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v325/hauitsme/Stuff/EvilGirls.jpg

finchOU
03-09-2005, 10:13 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> Not that I care about the other guy, he caught me with her and stabbed me in the back of the head with his car keys... Alot of blood lets just say... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/blink.gif

Oh and I lost that job, I got sacked coz the bosses didnt take kindly to me shagging the secretary. Since then I have got a another job at a better architects firm... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-happy.gif

... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

LMFAO...that was one of the funniest posts I've read in a while! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Nukem.....seriouly man, I've had it with selfish HOt Soro-nazies....they are evil. Find a girl you can relate too, and not some girl who will not take the time to accept who you are....

negus1
03-09-2005, 10:47 PM
The problem with my girlfriend is very special:

She is from Israel, I am German.

Whenever I play IL2 she makes me a bad conscience when I fly a German plane. Thank god the Luftwaffe was not the SS so I can still argue. However it is very difficult to make her understand the beauty of a Me 109.

With Silent Hunter it will be very much the same but a bit worse because there is no opportunity to play for the "good side". So how can I make her understand that I am fond of such a game?

Any suggestions?

hauitsme
03-09-2005, 10:54 PM
Just admit your ***** whipped.
Ain't it funny how that part of the female anatomy keeps us 'in line' with what 'they' want?

blue_76
03-09-2005, 10:55 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by negus1:
The problem with my girlfriend is very special:

She is from Israel, I am German.

So how can I make her understand that I am fond of such a game?

Any suggestions? <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

quite a dillema there.. hmm.. (i'm also a big fan of the 109 btw http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif ) well, i suppose u could try to convince her you are flying for germany, not hitler http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif same for the uboats.. it has more to do with national pride, rather than belief in ideology.. me, i'm no german, but i love german engineering http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

julien673
03-09-2005, 11:32 PM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by negus1:
The problem with my girlfriend is very special:

She is from Israel, I am German.

Whenever I play IL2 she makes me a bad conscience when I fly a German plane. Thank god the Luftwaffe was not the SS so I can still argue. However it is very difficult to make her understand the beauty of a Me 109.

With Silent Hunter it will be very much the same but a bit worse because there is no opportunity to play for the "good side". So how can I make her understand that I am fond of such a game?

Any suggestions? <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Just said you arent good.. and each time your bf109 or your uboat was destroyed by the allie... you are happy.. and if you take the allie... the axis will always win http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-wink.gif

And after that.. you may give her a good massage... just in case http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

JG27_Arklight
03-09-2005, 11:48 PM
I'm not going to judge your GF as I don't know her, but somebody who expects you to place them over your own life, and ultimately your goals, would cause me to start thinking.

She doesn't have to like video games or your two jobs and school, but she should at least understand that they are parts of your life and she should support you in your endeavours, despite how much it affects her.

Want to make it easy? Ask yourself if you could see yourself living with her personality for the rest of your life.

My ex-fiance (key being "EX") wanted a rather large ring and was disappointed that she didn't get one. Now she is really diappointed because she has NO ring and I married somebody else. My ex-fiance isn't even .00000000000001% of the woman I ended up with. The only reason I'm saying this is because the portion of what you said regarding her wanting a really nice ring threw red lights up everywhere. Be weary my friend. Be in love, don't be in love with being in love.

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archer49d
03-10-2005, 12:10 AM
The perfect woman, in my mind, is something along the lines of Elaine Benes from Seinfeld...
We'd spend so much time b*tching about how stupid everyone else is that we wouldn't find time to complain about each other... And isn't that the key to everything: Communication?

Leif...
03-10-2005, 12:38 AM
A girl wants her man to change, but they never do.
A man wants his girl to never change, but they do.

Leif€¦

julien673
03-10-2005, 12:39 AM
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nice one leif http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_biggrin.gif

Messervy
03-10-2005, 03:32 AM
I am all "biblical" right now since I just came from the dinosaur thread.
I tried a couple of relationships, with me being the honest and a loving one.
Yes, you guessed right.
Now I am on my own and enjoying the best time of my life ever.
I know I will get lonely at some point in the future but I will never revert to "good old Messervy" again.
I have a path in sight. Don`t know what`s behind the horizon and I frankly don`t care because I have seen it all before. I intend to walk that path alone and If, by some weird coincidenc, I meet I girl (either I catch up with her or vice versa) on the very same journey to nothingness, we will just take our hands and proceed on a very same course.

Davca
03-10-2005, 04:30 AM
i think the solution is somewhere in the middle.i think if u respect your GF/wife with her bad habbits and flaws and she respect u in a same way and both of u work on it and the communication channel is not jammed then life is beautiful and interesting.if either side is not willing to do it then the troubles start, and one of u is backing up then never stops and it destroys trust and friendship in the relationship.and the end is close.
i love playing games and stay on computer long times,but i also buy flowers for my girlfriend,take her out, and makes me really happy if i can make her day happy too!then i have no trouble to play long nights.it took long time to find such a woman but if u give up u never find out if there is some for you too.
we are getting married this summer after 3,5 years.
i know its little cheesy, but the key is both sides has to be willing to compromise and enjoy it.its bloody hard i know http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif. well at the end of the day you love her,dont you?
end of it. http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-tongue.gif
ps:before i was for 6 years alone plus/minus.for the ones who lost hope! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

stevenwhiting
03-10-2005, 05:13 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by negus1:
The problem with my girlfriend is very special:

She is from Israel, I am German.

Whenever I play IL2 she makes me a bad conscience when I fly a German plane. Thank god the Luftwaffe was not the SS so I can still argue. However it is very difficult to make her understand the beauty of a Me 109.

With Silent Hunter it will be very much the same but a bit worse because there is no opportunity to play for the "good side". So how can I make her understand that I am fond of such a game?

Any suggestions? <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Explain to her its just a game and not real life.

Kejotikk
03-10-2005, 05:30 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

You got it all wrong, it's: "Women. Can't live with them, can't live with them."

Sharpe26
03-10-2005, 05:34 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Kejotikk:
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Nukem_Hicks:Women. Can't live without 'em, can't live with 'em. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

You got it all wrong, it's: "Women. Can't live with them, can't live with them." <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

you all is wrong!

its "women, Can't live with them.... the end"

Messervy
03-10-2005, 05:41 AM
No, No, No, NOOOO NO!
It is Women can`t live (properly)!

Miki40
03-10-2005, 06:14 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Davca:
i think the solution is somewhere in the middle.i think if u respect your GF/wife with her bad habbits and flaws and she respect u in a same way and both of u work on it and the communication channel is not jammed then life is beautiful and interesting.if either side is not willing to do it then the troubles start, and one of u is backing up then never stops and it destroys trust and friendship in the relationship.and the end is close.
i love playing games and stay on computer long times,but i also buy flowers for my girlfriend,take her out, and makes me really happy if i can make her day happy too!then i have no trouble to play long nights.it took long time to find such a woman but if u give up u never find out if there is some for you too.
we are getting married this summer after 3,5 years.
i know its little cheesy, but the key is both sides has to be willing to compromise and enjoy it.its bloody hard i know http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif. well at the end of the day you love her,dont you?
end of it. http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/16x16_smiley-tongue.gif
ps:before i was for 6 years alone plus/minus.for the ones who lost hope! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Good luck to you both! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gif

Davca
03-10-2005, 06:26 AM
thanks Miki40 http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_smile.gifevery marrige needs it! http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_wink.gif

Pr0metheus 1962
03-10-2005, 07:08 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Kejotikk:
You got it all wrong, it's: "Women. Can't live with them, can't live with them." <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I thought it was: "Women. Can't live with 'em, can't burn 'em.

Pr0metheus 1962
03-10-2005, 07:20 AM
Let me try to sort out Schepke here, because he is under some kind of delusion regarding the way relationships work:

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Schepke_U-100:
My women issues are weird at the moment! I slept with the work secretary who had a boyfriend. She cheated on him with me for about 9 to 10 months. She has only now just broken up with him but says she thinks its too soon to have another boyfriend, but we are still gonna be together? What is that!!! Weird... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

It's not weird. She's telling you she wants no commitment because she can't trust herself or you in a relationship. Heck, you should understand that, after all you slept with her when she was seeing someone else - neither of you can be trusted. She just wants to leave all options open so that she has the option to cheat on you like she did on the other guy, and she wants to be able to do it with a clear conscience. It's absolutely reasonable, especially given your history together.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>She gets jealous if im out with the lads, but sometimes if I wanna see her then she says she is too busy... I guess I gotta give her time to get over the break up...She only did it 3 weeks ago... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Hehe, sounds like you both have the same problem. You're both as selfish as one another. Heck, you're meant for one another.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Not that I care about the other guy, he caught me with her and stabbed me in the back of the head with his car keys... Alot of blood lets just say... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/blink.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

If I caught you with my girlfriend you'd be lucky to get away so lightly. What did you think would happen when you're caught dicking another bloke's girl? Did you expect a smile and a handshake?

One piece of free advice: you can NEVER EVER trust someone who cheated on her boyfriend with you. If they cheat on him, chances are they'll cheat on you. People like that don't place any value on relationships. You should understand that, because you've shown that you don't either. A relationship is meant to be based on trust, not lust and treachery.

Pappy55
03-10-2005, 07:43 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR> hey all got nice wet c**t's and juggy boobs, round asses and last but not least nice long legs. and as a bonus for beeing with them, you´re allowed to touch them sometimes! if your´re a lucky one Wink

but they not often have a warm heart, which is hugging you warm and softly. so be wise in your decision. this kind of woman is rare and hard to find... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

I found one..
Her name is Naoko
http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v329/Pappy55/Naoko.jpg

Axxent
03-10-2005, 07:53 AM
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. My girl enjoys PC gaming, watching hockey, and going to car shows. She likes horror and war movies.

Muahaha. Perfect.

Eaj1es
03-10-2005, 07:56 AM
Hi all
If my story helps here is it:
I told my wife she would have the more original Bedroom they could ever imagine. The rest of the house was free for here to be decorated her way. So I build a U-Boat interior with radio room section, control room and quarter´s bedrooms. When she sleeps I play in my Sub with rig for red. The electric room noises and the red/blue lights helps here sleeping.
Some of you have still visit my uboat interior:
http://community.webshots.com/user/eaj1es

regards
Alex

Axxent
03-10-2005, 08:01 AM
Very interesting. You should rig it all to work with SHIII!

Tomcat41
03-10-2005, 08:06 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Axxent:
I guess I'm one of the lucky ones. My girl enjoys PC gaming, watching hockey, and going to car shows. She likes horror and war movies.

Muahaha. Perfect. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>


It's a trap!!!!

http://shootagainamusements.com/itsatrap/akbar.jpg

TASKFORCE1x1
03-10-2005, 08:42 AM
My wife and I play battlefield1942 together. I built equil computers for both her and I. We have also been married past one year now- no problems. She beats me home to play on the PC. I preordered 3 SHIII games so you know she is getting one. No problems here. Maybe get her interrested in SHIII more or some other game like SIMS 2. Find out what she likes on the PC. If not maybe its not ment to be. Donno what else to say. http://forums.ubi.com/groupee_common/emoticons/icon_rolleyes.gif

Schepke_U-100
03-11-2005, 05:13 AM
<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Beeryus:
Let me try to sort out Schepke here, because he is under some kind of delusion regarding the way relationships work:

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Originally posted by Schepke_U-100:
My women issues are weird at the moment! I slept with the work secretary who had a boyfriend. She cheated on him with me for about 9 to 10 months. She has only now just broken up with him but says she thinks its too soon to have another boyfriend, but we are still gonna be together? What is that!!! Weird... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

It's not weird. She's telling you she wants no commitment because she can't trust herself or you in a relationship. Heck, you should understand that, after all you slept with her when she was seeing someone else - neither of you can be trusted. She just wants to leave all options open so that she has the option to cheat on you like she did on the other guy, and she wants to be able to do it with a clear conscience. It's absolutely reasonable, especially given your history together.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>She gets jealous if im out with the lads, but sometimes if I wanna see her then she says she is too busy... I guess I gotta give her time to get over the break up...She only did it 3 weeks ago... <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

Hehe, sounds like you both have the same problem. You're both as selfish as one another. Heck, you're meant for one another.

<BLOCKQUOTE class="ip-ubbcode-quote"><font size="-1">quote:</font><HR>Not that I care about the other guy, he caught me with her and stabbed me in the back of the head with his car keys... Alot of blood lets just say... http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/blink.gif <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>

If I caught you with my girlfriend you'd be lucky to get away so lightly. What did you think would happen when you're caught dicking another bloke's girl? Did you expect a smile and a handshake?

One piece of free advice: you can NEVER _EVER_ trust someone who cheated on her boyfriend with you. If they cheat on him, chances are they'll cheat on you. People like that don't place any value on relationships. You should understand that, because you've shown that you don't either. A relationship is meant to be based on trust, not lust and treachery. <HR></BLOCKQUOTE>



Whateva! Im here to talk about Submarine warfare in WW2... I just added my 2c worth on what is ultimately a majorly OT subject...

And I dont need to be schooled in the arts of relationships... WHO YA CALLIN' SELFISH YOU ****!!! http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/784.gif http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/784.gif http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/784.gif http://forums.ubi.com/images/smilies/784.gif

TASKFORCE1x1
03-11-2005, 08:57 AM
quote:
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Not that I care about the other guy, he caught me with her and stabbed me in the back of the head with his car keys... Alot of blood lets just say...

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Wow thats messed up. Not knowing someone has a boyfriend is one thing , but knowing she does ... well thats just a very very bad thing to do. No wonder people still get killed when there is no war. Other people's love feelings isnt something to mess with.