Originally posted by Realjambo:
I wanted to raise 2 points if I may. Your brother in law, now obviously I don't know him but I wonder if he's finding it all a bit much to deal with? and it's his way of coping by not responding to calls or seeing Terry? I'm not defending him, don't get me wrong please, it was just my initial reaction to what you said. Perhaps the cruel jokes were an attempt at humour, in his own way, in a difficult situation. Having said that, not seeing her is not good.