edited top post in hopes it helps ppl with same prob.
game crash was the desk top for no reason crash at random.
things i did:
1. first checked all drivers and updated old ones
2. then when that failed i expanded my page file to 4k
3. reinstalled the game (didnt help)
4. took out my 512 card and put ina gig (1.5 now)
5. played for like 4 hours lol any questions just pm