Okay, so i have seen the commercials, and talked to my local non-major-company-video-game-dealer, and both now say Thursday

Many variuos online sites, videogamecountdown, and the Ubistore, also a few other places say its the 20th, god i so confused(U.S. live in the I)

Since i didnt see a sticky for the release date(wierd) i figured I would start my own. Please help me.

If the date has been altered then I'm personally unaware of it. The European date hasn't altered at least, and since stores are notorious for being wrong about this kind of thing, I don't see why they should be any more reliable now. In short, I can't help you. You won't have long to wait to find out anyway...

The 21st is the release date for the US. the 23rd for the UK.

If you ask, the game ships on the 20th and is released on the 21st (in the US).