I cant seem to find any console commands that change spell cool down time or any options on damage. I found one for telekinesis but that was the only one i found. MMtelekinesis_chargetime x. I really want to find one for freeze.

thy will look for .qct files
thy will achieve all the power

i have no idea where to find .qct files. Could you tell me where to look or even easier would be if there were console commands that did the same.
thanks

Here is another topic talking about this.

Just a warning:
DM will vary a lot editing those files. I didn't try playing to see if everything works in game.
Delete your edited file(s) to restore the original game.

where should i extract the mm_models_pub.gcf game cache file to. I put it in a separate folder but how do i get the game to access the modded items? the original game cache still exists.

You must extract the files (note that you'll only need the .qct) maintaining the proper folders tree as you have in the .gcf file, in your ..Steam\SteamApps\username\dark messiah might and magic single player\mm folder.

so it should work if i just launch DMOMM after it is in that folder and thats it?

Note that you should edit first_basic.qct, first_xana.qct and player_basic.qct at first attempt, 'cause they are the files dealing with the player (you).
You can edit other files of course, but the beneficts might not be achieved if some parameter depends from others from other files.