since servers wont connect, any other alternative? friendly user as much as possible please, and i dont have any online buds that plays that game

I believe Hamachi will work when UBI servers are down.

There are some threads in here on different VPN's with some helpful suggestions.
But, I don't believe any of them are fool proof!

Ubisoft doesn't privide any other options so you are are the mercy of their master server, or try to setup a VPN.

The other option is to play other games when Ubisoft's server goes down.