Please could you tell me, how on earth do i start trading with the other village, i've just starting playing, so i'm right near the beginning of the game, also how do i buil up my miliarty?
Please help.

You could read this information from the Useful Links and Information thread at the top of the forum http://forums.ubi.com/eve/foru...1083365/m/6731070306 but as you work your way through the levels, you are shown how to advance in the game.