i select internet cause lan dont show servers....but all it does is say....loading...help appreciated as i am a spankin new player....uggh

If you are talking about the original FARCRY... then it sounds like you are not patched up to 1.4

You will have to install each patch in order, or install the cumulative 1.4.

All the patches can be found in the stickies on this forum. Good luck...