i really like this one girl, ive been basically texting here non stop. but the fact is is that shes my best friends ex, and they broke up like a month ago. but he broke up with her and is now going out with sum 1 else. so....

Question:
do i ask her out, or is this not cool?

Choices:
Yes go for it man!
no man thats not coll
only if its ok with your friend, then go for it.
other (explain)

 

The old term is, "Bros before Hos"

As long as your friend doesnt have a problem with it, Go for it.

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Originally posted by VTAssault:
The old term is, "Bros before Hos"

and i abide by that saying. if my friend isnt cool with it i don't do it.

you know i just noticed...most of my girlfriends are my friends exs or girls they have liked. i think i have a screwed up fetish

who said it wasnt cool. i need explanations guys

this is the second thread you made about whether or not its right for you to go out with a girl or not

i like to go out with controversial girls...sew me :P. anyway that was last year ha ha

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Originally posted by tmgbhot:
this is the second thread you made about whether or not its right for you to go out with a girl or not

ha ha lay off him man. hes a confused little boy lol. nah im just screwin with ya shady

Since she is not his sister, it's OK as long as you ask his permission. Quoting 2 rules of the Man Code here:

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1. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off limits forever! Unless you actually marry her.

13. Before dating a buddy's ex you are required to ask his permission. If he grants it, he is however allowed to say, "Man, you're gonna love the way she...(specifics unnecessary)"

So as long as he's ok with it, it's fine.

He broke up with her.

I see no problem with it.


Ive been in that situation before and my bro's didnt seem to mind.

If she broke up with him, maybe not, but it was the other way around. Obviously he doesn't want to be with her, therefore he should have to problems with you being with her. Go for it.

Melonie you know how to make sigs?

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Originally posted by tmgbhot:
Melonie you know how to make sigs?

just go to edit profile and look for the big box where it says html text thingy if allowed.

That's not what he means...



And by the way, next time, try to NOT go on an internet forum for love advice. Do what you think is best. Or if you need help, talk with people personally.

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Originally posted by Halo_99:
That's not what he means...



And by the way, next time, try to NOT go on an internet forum for love advice. Do what you think is best. Or if you need help, talk with people personally.

If you are telling me about the sig then i guess i was trying to help out and ended up looking dumb it happens to alot

You learn from your mistakes.

but for some of us it takes a few mistakes to learn anything

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Originally posted by tmgbhot:
but for some of us it takes a few mistakes to learn anything

Im one of those....

quote:

Originally posted by Halo_99:
That's not what he means...



And by the way, next time, try to NOT go on an internet forum for love advice. Do what you think is best. Or if you need help, talk with people personally.

i know but my friends are idiots. they either go "dude thats ****ing wrong" or " dude just **** her". i like the people on these forums and no they are not a stupid as them. people like melonie are the people i like to talk to . even though i dont post a lot i do look around these forums every day thanks for the advise guys

quote:

Originally posted by Halo_99:
That's not what he means...



And by the way, next time, try to NOT go on an internet forum for love advice. Do what you think is best. Or if you need help, talk with people personally.

i no, but my friends are stupid, and i dont like talking about it to other people cause i dont want them blabbing it to my friend before i say it to him. like im doing something behind his back. besides, i like talking about this stuff on ehre cause you guys arn't idiots. like melonie, shes friggin awesome . thanks guys, and even though i dont post alot i am always looking over these forums