I need a good way tocrash land because whenever I get my throttle shot up i turn off my engines and power to 0% and then put my wheels down and then try to land a soft crash land, but noooooo its always BOOM!

Don't put your wheels down, unless you're landing on a road or an airfield. As soon as you touch the ground you should let go of the stick and only use the rudder, if anything. Also, raise your flaps as soon as you touch down.

Watch some AI crash landing and see what they do. It's like everything else in this game, it takes a bit of practice. Good luck.

Switch your engine off just before touch down, I did about 15 crash landings each for engine off and on and found you were about 50 percent more likely to catch fire with it on

Any landing you walk away from.........

Keep your gear up, turn off and feather the engine, and land normally. I've had good experiences with wheels down in trike gear aircraft, but only rarely and when the airplane is significantly nose heavy. Unless you want to take back off, don't try it.

When a prang (crash) seems inevitable, endeavor to strike the softest, cheapest object in the vicinity as slowly and gently as possible.