if a waitress said to you look the cofee i just made have a shape of heart i said my usual nonsense as fluids make vortices and she said no you have to work it out with the foam

i didnt give it any importacnce but then i thought well imagine it had been a waiter who had said it to me, what would you think?

i remember in england when i left the job the partners insinuated i was homxexual because 2 girls seemed to be after me but i didnt realize

do you think this waitress was trying to say something to me?

Possibly, go back and strike up a conversation.

Was it a foamy cappacino or latte drink? I've seen all kinds of shapes formed in the foam by the server.

Or possibly she was flirting with you, raaaid.

I think you spend too much time analyzing things and talking about them.

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Originally posted by mmitch10:
I think you spend too much time analyzing things and talking about them.

Like most .

Best results are usually achieved when you get in the midst head-on. When you think it thru, you'll always find a faulty side in every plan, therefore it's better not to think much and just do it.

RAAAID.

i have found out one big thing since i have been married for the past year and a half. now that i "CANT" go home with anyone else, i now no longer care what women think about me. therefore i have openly gone out of my way to just say "if no one has told you how atractive you are, I am telling you" or something like that and walk off.

do some of them think i am a dork? yes

do some of them actually appreciate it? yes

do some of them want to talk more? yes. i point to my ring and say...sorry, i am not trying to pick you up, but i thought you should know how good/pretty/awesome/hot you look. and then i quickly bugger off.

i know longer worry about what they think. wish i had learned this BEFORE I GOT MARRIED!:P

have also learned OLDER WOMEN who you can tell had grace and beauty in thier youth, and still carry it today...love to hear it! especially in front of husbands

anyways to get back on track... DONT THINK! i have missed waaaay too many relationships with beatiful girls because i thought they were being nice cause i was a "friend" or a "big brother " to them.

think with your dick,and not your brain this time, AND GET SOME. (but DONT BE A DICK IN THE PROCESS..OR YOU LOST IT)

WOW! I CAN SAY "DICK"!!!??? AND NOT "****"! how cool is that! but you cant say F*** still.

Eh GAU-8 said it all right.

Time to use...

...smiley.

GAU-8 is dead right. Sometimes it`s best NOT to think and just do.

Too much Analysis leads to Paralysis. Remember that quote, Raaid.

a final thought, RAAAID


nobody likes rejection, but the more it happens the better you deal with it, and get experience from it. guys like us who analyze too much... MISS THE BOAT more often than not.

remember the longer you wait, the further the hurdle is to jump on the deck of the boat while it is pulling away, leaving you on the pier. if only you jumped, rather than thought"its pulling away, do i jump? will i make it?..what if i land on my face,and make it...what if i fall on my face right here before i even leave the ground. what if I...."

just JUMP!


(quote: "Too much Analysis leads to Paralysis")

SEAFIRE...i wish i had learned that years ago. where were you!? best quote i have heard in a long time. RAAAID, i second you remember this

Thanks. Unfortunately, I learned this quote a little late as well. Applying it now though.

Raaid,

if she was attractive to you, you needn't have said anything more than "Could it be a sign?".

Things would've just happened from there.

It sounds like you are in there Raaaid, go and talk to her.
SeafireLIV has hit the nail on the head, I'm 23 and I've always been quite poor at talking to and flirting with women. One of the reasons (apart from being quite shy around women in general) is because I am always second guessing the situation and analysing every detail. I do what GAU-8 mentioned and thought "is she just being friendly" and dismissed it.

So what are you waiting for Raaaid, go get some tail.

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Originally posted by raaaid:

i remember in england when i left the job

You were not by any chance advising anyone called Blair or Brown? as that could explain a lot.........

She was hitting on you you wally, go back and try again

Oh please... You're a Spaniard, gosh sake, you are disgracing us!

Do you expect her to put down your trousers or what? Man, react. It's better to be slapped once or twice than spending the rest of your life watching pr0n pages...

I'd have told her: "It seems you are an expert in heart-making... if I'd give you a broken heart, would you be able to mend it?"

Just don't act a geek... be nice, sensitive and smile a lot. AND DON'T MONOPOLIZE THE CONVERSATION. Listen with mystical attention ANYTHING she says like it was the most fascinating thing in the world.