JUst got the game, patched it, and it shows alot of servers.
My problem is it doesn't seem to want to connect to any of them? Or does it take a LONG time to connect?

check your internet connection speed and enable the firewall to accept graw2 traffic on the internet. Get zone alarm firewall and use the game mode option with the deny all for the duration of the game.

I just ran speedtest.net and ran it from a location 600 miles from me and got
152ms latency
1341 kb/s Down
468 kb/s up
That should be good enough to play shouldn't it? Right now I'm just using the XP firewall- set to configure to play.
Eset Nod 32 anti virus.(I turn it off and it doesn't help)

I am unable to find the majority of the maps listed in the multi player game . Could you post a down load site for these please .

me and my friend bought GRAW2 yesterday and where planning to play coop, but we cant connect to any servers it seems, or it takes a very very long time to connect, must say i got very disapointed in this game with a non-working MP part

gentlepeople....
This is the OGR section of teh Ubi forums, for GRAW2 please go to the advanced warfighter section.
If you have issues playing GRAW/GRAW2 please take a look at ghostrecon.net, a fansite with the custom maps you miss/help for troubles.